Pastors carry a congregation in their pocket: texts, emails and calls at every hour. Many are deeply tired. When you're choosing a gift, ask: will this give my pastor rest, encouragement or time?

1. Notes from the congregation

Collect handwritten notes about specific ways their ministry has mattered. Pastors keep these for years.

2. A protected Sabbath

Offer to cover something, such as meals, childcare or a pulpit supply Sunday, so your pastor can actually rest. Pair it with Be Still Card: one tap locks email and social apps and shows Scripture instead, so a day off can actually be a day off. $39, no subscription.

3. A retreat or getaway

A few nights somewhere quiet, paid for by the church or a group of families, can be the most restorative gift of the year.

4. Books they've mentioned

Ask their spouse or staff for their wish list, or a gift card to a Christian bookstore.

5. A gift for the whole family

Ministry families sacrifice a lot. Restaurant gift cards, a family outing or a set of Be Still Cards for everyone at home ($39 plus $25 per extra card) honor that.

For church leaders: give the gift church-wide

If your pastor has been preaching about rest and attention, consider helping launch a church-wide digital Sabbath. Read our letter to pastors, what pastors need to know about phone addiction, and see custom-branded cards for churches.

More gift guides: Christmas gifts, gifts for men, gifts for women and gifts for teens.

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